by Sydnye White-Oyugi
Toddlers don't care much about hair. Little girls do!
When my daughter turned three last year, Kirigo (Tata Kirigo as she is known in my house) trimmed about 3-inches of her hair. It had never been cut and therefore was multiple lengths. Plus she had some breakage in the back. My daughter didn't mind the cut and quite frankly, didn't notice a difference.
Now that she is turning 4, I told her that it is time for Tata Kirigo to cut her hair. "Nooooooooo!" she cried out holding her head. "Sorry, sweety," I said. "I meant trim. Tata will just clip your ends." It was too late. The whining had started and the tears were flowing.
Somewhere between last year and this year, hair has become a real part of my daughter's self-identity. She likes to wear her hair out - in a big floppy fro. But she also likes corn-rows and pony tails - anything where she can add barrettes, clips, bows and other adornments. She admires her teachers long, straight weave. I tell her that her teacher's hair is nice but that her bouncy hair is my favorite.
When Kirigo talks about hair as a journey, she's not kidding! Right now, I am co-driver to a 4-year old. In a couple of weeks, we'll make a pit stop into Tata Kirigo's styling chair to gas up on loving, lovely hair care! My daughter is not looking forward to it at the moment but once I tell her how pretty she will look, I'm sure she'll come around. Not to mention, she likes having Tata's undivided attention. After that, we'll strap in, press the gas and see what is in store over the next year.
Sydnye White-Oyugi is a proud mom, freelance television producer and freelance writer. She wears her own natural hair in locks.
Thank you so much Syd for sharing your story.
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